The guy decided that he could control my apartment.
I'm 28 years old. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. We've been living together for half a year. We rent an apartment. He pays the rent, andproducts , when as. My parents bring a lot of products from the village (he is a city dweller), and I often go to the store myself. Plus cleaning and cooking are completely on me. I provide for myself, clothes, manicure and other feminine needs. I paidcar loan . I work at a normal job, plus I earn extra money.
A year ago, my parents gave me 300 thousand rubles for a down payment. I took out a mortgage. I paid it myself the whole year. The guy didn't even know what date my payment was. I got the keys. Now it's gettingquestion about repairs. Again, my parents are ready to help me, plus I have an older onebrother , who also offered financialhelp .
Today I had a huge fight with my boyfriend. It all started when he started saying that when the time comes to expand, we will sell this apartment. I said that we will not sell. I am from the village, and I could never dream of having my own place. My parents saved up for a long time, and we are not even test-antibiotic.com married yet, and already such conversations. And in general, all this will be seen. I felt very unpleasant that he is dividing something for which he has not yet given a penny. Please tell me, how would you react?
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