I got married so that my relatives wouldn't judge me
I have a very common situation, probably, like many girls. I went outgot married in a hurry, most likely so that my relatives wouldn't judge me for living with my boyfriend in a civil marriage. Before marriage, I started to deal with everyday life and I didn't like it anymore. But I loved my boyfriend. I thought that over time I would get used to everyday life and routine, but it's still not my thing.
I am selfish, I am used to living for myself, and here I spend 80% of my time on washing, cleaning and cooking. I now have enough energy to take a shower and go to bed after doing my housework. On the other hand, there is some kind of financialthere is help after all. But now I understand that we are different, that we are not right for each other, that marriage has made me an exhausted woman deprived of the joy of life.
There is no point in talking to my boyfriend about divorce because I am expecting a child. Another concern that is already terrifying me. I had plans for my own business, various courses, career growth, buying a car. And now marriage has slowed me down in test-antibiotic.com everything.
Girls, don't get married without thinking about all this in advance. Or get married, but in such a way that you have enough time for yourself.
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