How to improve your relationship with your daughter?

01.02.2024
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How to improve your relationship with your daughter?
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Surely many have found themselves in difficult family situations and somehow dealt with them. Tell me if you can. I am 39 years old and work as a nurse. 20 yearsMarried . I have a daughter, Margarita, 16 years old. At one time, I probably did something very stupid when I dropped out of medical school and went to work in order to give my husband the opportunity to study. I provided for my family, and he was able to easily graduate from college. Then my friend took him to work as a manager at her company. He always said: “Let’s wait another year, I’ll get back on my feet, and then I’ll help you, and you’ll return to your institute.” Years have passed, as a result, Alexander is now a successful businessman, the owner of a company, and I have remained a nurse.

It’s okay, I agree to live for him and for my daughter. Maintain "home" But Sasha has become completely different in the last couple of years. He complained that I was getting old, that I didn’t know how to dress, and in general that he was ashamed to have a wife who was a nurse. And the worst thing is thatthe daughter gradually went over to her father's side. She was proud of his successes, told her friends how wonderful and successful test-antibiotic.com was.father . It got to the point that one day, when I came to school for a parent meeting, I heard from the class teacher that Margarita was telling me thatMom is very sick and cannot communicate with teachers. I was shocked. She probably did the wrong thing and decided to have a frank conversation with her husband. The situation exploded. My husband said that he no longer wants to live with me. ANDhis daughter supported him.

Now I live with my parents,My husband is separated, and for my daughter, my husband and I rent an apartment together. Rita doesn’t want to communicate with me, she says that I’m a loser.

My heart breaks with fear for her fate. She is in her last year of school and works part-time as a waitress in a nightclub. He says that, unlike me, he will achieve everything. I understand that at the age of 16 you want to be independent and really believe in yourself, but I know thatlife is much more difficult and I am very afraid for my girl.

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