How to overcome differences in communication with your mother?
It so happened that upon enteringuniversity , I realized that I don’t like studying there (despite the fact that it is the best university in our area). I decided to pick up the documents, but ran into internal problems. First of all, I, of course, care what he saysmom , but I still hoped that she would accept any of my decisions, but no, she is categorically against my choice. And I decided to go to distance learning and work. Mom said that she was categorically against me being a consultant in the store; in general, she did not support it. And I adequately understand that I chose the wrong field of study, 2 months were enough for me to understand this.
My parents are divorced, but my dad supported me and said that it’s yourslife , do as you want. At the moment, I really want to go pick up the documents, but I’m scared, questions/interrogations will begin about why I’m taking them, but I don’t want to explain anything, I just want to leave and that’s all. I'm on a budget, so I haven't lost anything. I don’t know what’s best, I talked to my mother, she didn’t support me, test-antibiotic.com but I’m 18 and this is my life, my choice and I decided so. Now I’m thinking of going to work, and only when I’m settled will I pick up my documents, but I’m one hundred percent sure that I don’t want to study in this place. How to overcome yourself?
To find the strength to take such a step as getting a job for the first time in my life, picking up documents from the university, and also going against my mother, with whom I had walked in the same step all my life (she supported all my decisions). Moreover, I don’t want to tell her now that I’m going to look for a job and pick up documents. She suggests waiting for the first session, but I already want to work and earn money, and not wait for the session at the university, which I made a mistake in choosing.
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