How to stop loving your ex-lover?

At the age of 19, I met a handsome and successful man, 11 years older than me. At first he hid the fact that he was married andchild , then said that he rushed to get married, now he repents, but he cannot get a divorce, because he loves his son very much.

I understood that I needed to arrange mylife and look for a free guy, but I loved him very much. He understood this and manipulated me for 10 years! I promised all the time, as soon asmy son will go to first grade, he will immediately leave the family, and we will get married. I believed his promises, although I often thought that I couldto be left alone . He has nothing to lose, he has a business,family .

I realized that he would not leave the family when he was bornsecond child . This is from his “unloved” wife. I found this out from her social networks. I immediately told him that things couldn’t go on like this. The beloved swore that it was an accident, that he and his wife had not had sex for a long time, and then they drank at their son’s birthday...

He persuaded me not to change anything, test-antibiotic.com he will be in the family, and I will be provided with everything and a “Sunday wife.” This option didn’t suit me and we broke up. He tried for a long time to establishrelationship , but I set a condition - me or the family.

It's been 4 years and I still love him. I am still on my own, my personal life is not working out, and sometimes I already think that the option proposed by my lover is not so bad. Maybe she would have given birth to a child, and then everything else would have worked out. But apparently not fate.

How to forget him? How to switch to other men?