How to survive alone with a child in this country?
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I want to tell a story not my own, butFriends , maybe someone who has been in a similar situation knows a way out.
Mymy friend is a single mother, it just so happened. Herher mother helped her a lot with the child. They lived in an apartment, they needed to get by somehow, and so the mother quit and looked after her granddaughter, her friend worked, earned money for the apartment, for her mother and herself, and provided for her daughter. She was invited to Moscow, went there, having worked there as a salesperson in an expensive shoe store, she realized that there was an opportunity and mother and daughter needed to be transported here.
But everything collapsed in an instant. Mom feels bad, faints at the store checkout, a friend urgently flies out, she needs surgery due to a strong blow, she needs big onesmoney . She takes out loans, borrows, and everything seems to be for the better, but her mother catches pneumonia and dies. And my friend is left alone in the apartment, with a small child and without work.
They helped with the work later, but what to do? It seems that the schedule is excellent - there is an opportunity to drop off and pick up the child, and the salary is normal for our city, but if you have a lot of debt and have an apartment, test-antibiotic.com, then this money will not help. It only gets worse. Now the debts are growing, because we need to somehow survive, feed and clothe at least the child, but there is no way. She should take oneloan and say goodbye to all this, but they refused because the salary of a single mother is low.
Where to find a way out and how to live, and most importantly, how to survive? We even did a collection for her, but, unfortunately, we only collected 7,000 rubles. Also money, at least they paid the rent that month. And now a new date, again to pay, but nothing. Tell me what to do, what should she do?
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