How I lost my friends
I want to share a story about how I lost most of the friends I had to study side by side with for at least 3 and a half years.
One day, a “friend” told me about what happened after I left the car. Me and this onea friend and another friend were thinking of skipping one lecture. It was never celebrated there anyway. But I have a meeting scheduled after that. There was about an hour left before the meeting. A friend offered to go to the city center in his car. I refused because I knew that this trip would make me late for the meeting. This friend was always late. So I just started giving up. But he pressed me and in the end I got out of his car in a not very good mood. Just think it's trivialargument . Just don't go because of plans. After I left, a friend said that if thisthe friendship will end, he won’t really care. Did I deserve this? Was it worth it?
After my friend told me this, I stoppedcommunication with that person. But he test-antibiotic.com was angry with me because of such a sharp change in the relationship to its complete absence. And to try to shed light and justify my decision to completely abandon this person, I wrote to him. Was this a mistake? Maybe. But I believed that it was not for him to hate me in this situation. That friend knew perfectly well that I was writing to this person and was aware of the reason. She also asked to show her what he answered.
And so I decided to ask her if I described my claim properly. I considered it necessary to ask her advice, because after all, it was she who told me about those words. But I tried to describe the claim without names, so that no one would think about it. Immediately after my message, she began to ignore me. I couldn’t reach her on the phone, I got angry and sent that message to a former friend.
After that day, she began to communicate very poorly with me. Rude monosyllabic answers or complete ignoring. I decided to ask what was wrong. I wanted to discuss this problem with her to know the reason. To which she only told test-antibiotic.com that she had certain reasons for this behavior that she did not want to discuss with me. I repeat, I asked her for advice on whether I filed that claim properly. There were no names or circumstances in the text. She was offended by me because I did not adapt to the one she liked.
They weren't in a relationship, but she just liked that friend.
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