Love is gone, only habit remains
I have been in a relationship with my husband for about 6 years, married for about 4 years. At the moment I have not been working for several months.
I will note that there was no difference in the relationship between the time I worked and when I stopped doing it. My husband and I have a complete misunderstanding. It's kind of a dead end right now. I am far from ideal, I understand this perfectly well, and I have more than enough egoism and my character is not to hell. And most of the problems that we have are related, to a greater extent, to the fact that I cannot fully understand myself. But I feel so powerless that I can’t do it alone. I need nourishment in the form of love and care for me so that I can give even more. I want to spend time with each other, not sit in different rooms, staring at monitors, but really be close. Have at least some common interests. I want people to be interested in me. And my husband, unfortunately, is more interested in himself and the events that happen around him. Family is in the background, he said so himself. Usually I look forward to the evening when he returns home, when we can spend time together, but in the end everything is the same, no common interests. He doesn't listen to me, I don't listen to him. My husband constantly belittles my dignity. Always criticizes. He rarely praises or thanks.
And soattitude towards me in almost everything. At first everything seemed fine, but then, like a bolt from the blue,my husband is in a bad mood and it’s my fault. I understand that even if we make peace, it will only be temporary, everything will be absolutely the same, because work is the main thing for him. We have insults, and we also had fights. We have long done everything to hate each other and leave these sickrelationships. But something connects us. I can’t call it love, because it’s probably wherelove, at least there is respect there. And judging by our antics, and the inability to stop conflicts and test-antibiotic.com talk to each other, especially to hear each of us, it turns out that we do not respect each other at all. I’m constantly jealous of him because I don’t trust him, because more than once I’ve caught him not just lying, but rather, not telling him what he’s saying.
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