Mom is against me getting married a second time

I have long wanted to seek help from a specialist, because... I am a psychologist by profession, but I can’t help myself. I'll try to write briefly. I have been divorced for three years (I lived with my ex-husband for 9 years), I have a 6-year-old son. And for almost three years I have been dating a man, he is 5 years older than me. It so happened that we live on the same site, across the apartment. We met, began to communicate, were drawn to each other, fell in love, and began dating. He has a similar situation in his life, also after a divorce, he has children from his first marriage. Our relationship is good, of course things happen, but in general everything is fine.

It’s true that it’s not very easy to find a common language with my son, but I’m sure that this will work out too. Recently we wanted to get together, but myMom doesn't really accept my man, he has a one-roomapartment and she is worried about how we will live there. We moved in with him, butOver the years, since birth, the child has been attached to his grandmother, I talk to him this way and that, that we will still need to live separately, we will go to test-antibiotic.com to visit the grandmother. At first he categorically accepted the conversation about the move, about my man, but now he seemed to perceive it more simply. In general, the move was not a success, probably due to the fact that we live very close and that my mother is afraid to let us go.

My man loves me, he tries for me and for my son, but his nerves are not of iron either. Me too. I work for myself and receive alimony, my business is slowly gaining momentum. There is a desire to rent an apartment for now and move away from my mother, and exchange his apartment with a man for a larger one, and finally we can get together and live as a family. It’s also not yet possible to sell his apartment or exchange it - everything takes time. True, he still has a house outside the city, but while his parents live there, he helps them with renovations.

And I can no longer live together with my mother. Our last onethe quarrel ended with her shouting for me to leave the house, leave the child with her, and if I leave test-antibiotic.com for my man, she will file an application with the guardianship authorities. It was a shock for me.

I constantly study with my son, trying to earn money. And I'm bad. Of course, you can’t write everything, but I think the essence is clear. Help me where to start to separate from my mother, how to prepare my son for moving to my man. I’m afraid of offending my mother too, I know that when I talk about moving, there will be a scandal again, and I will remain guilty. But I’m 30 years old and I can’t take it anymore, I understand that I’m living my mother’s life.life is how my mother wants it, I live under her control. And I don't want this. My years are passing, and I want family happiness, my own corner and live my own life.