My mother hates me and interferes in my life

I am 39 years old, I have children. The eldest is 16, the youngest is 8, I have been divorced from my husband for 6 years.

After the divorce, she went to live in her homeland with her parents. Later she bought an apartment. Since childhoodMy mother didn't love me, she always tried to hurt me, humiliate me, prove that I was nobody. I didn't want to go back, but there was nothing to do.

Since the move sheevery day he oppresses me and my children, calling them idiots, and me a failed fool. And then a man appears in my life who wants to be with me. We started communicating, texting, calling each other (we have known each other for 3 years, but just at work). He invites me to a restaurant, for a walk, and I feel like I have a second youth. But my mother immediately has to get involved and destroy everything.

Today he stayed with me until the evening before work, we just sat, talked and drankcoffee . There was a knock at the door - it was my mother. By the way, aboutI didn't tell her about my relationship with someone because I knew it would be inadequatereaction . She came in, saw men's shoes test-antibiotic.com and said: "What is this? Shame! You'd better think about the children, and not bring men! If I see you again, I'll throw you out."

I still don't understand why she tells me what to do at 39, says nasty things about the first person she meets, about whom she knows nothing, and says, I'll throw him out? This is my house, I bought it with maternity capital. This is mine.life and my children. I love them very much, I live only for them, because I don’t find any meaning in my existence anymore. Then, 20 minutes later, she calls my daughter and says: “He left? I didn’t expect that from your mother! I don’t give a damn about her opinion.” And she hangs up. I want to cry, but I can’t, there are no tears, everything inside is like a stone. What should I do? Tell me? Why is she doing this to me? Why?