My beloved woman cannot leave her husband because of children
Three years ago I met a married girl. And from that time we fell in love with each other. I am already 32 years old, she is 35 and she has two daughters (6 and 10 years old).
During all this time, we talked with her on any topic, made plans forlife . I've been calling her to me for a long time. She wants it too. Hermy husband guessed about our relationship, but she constantly lied to him. And I recently said that you need to decide, if you want to be with me, then admit it, stop torturing everyone! She did just that, came home and told the whole truth about us to her husband, and that she had no feelings of love for him for a long time.
And he asks her to save the family, says that all this is not serious. He said that he had been following us for a long time, reading correspondence and listening to our conversations. He doesn’t want to talk to me, he sees me, but doesn’t come over.
In general, they talked for three days. And there wasThe question is how to explain all this to children. Juniorthe daughter overheard their conversation and the children began to become hysterical. And test-antibiotic.com my beloved, looking at them as they cried, could not talk to them, told them that she would not go anywhere with them. I tell her that she shouldn’t give up, that she needs to tune in to talk with the children. And she says that she would rather stay at home than see her children suffer. He loves me, but cannot overcome this barrier. But at the same time, we all continue to meet and communicate.
What to do next, what to do, what to expect?
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