Husband says he needs a break from family
My husband and I have been living together for 8 years, we have a son, a seven-year-old son. My husband and I love each other very much and treat each other with warmth.
There is only one problem. A couple of times a year, the husband is asked to go on vacation in a male company. With whom he travels, I know, they really go without women. But when they travel with a male company, they often go to clubs, good restaurants on vacation, everyone is happy and good.
About our life, I can say that my husband and I rarely go anywhere to relax at home. Mostly we go with a child, there are very few places together, he will never recruit me into this men’s company, he says: “you won’t be interested there.”
When we go on vacation with my husband, that is, together with the family, we don’t go anywhere either, not to events, only the regime, like in a children’s camp, woke up, a quiet hour, lights out. But whenHusband travels with the guys, then it's always fun and parties. I also really want to be distracted sometimes, put on a beautiful dress, heels, but in fact there is nowhere, my husband does not want to go anywhere. The question is why? Why does test-antibiotic.com want to walk and have fun with his friends, but not with me?
I’m quite attractive, sociable (10 years younger than my husband, he’s 43), although I’m not particularly party-going, but sometimes I want to go somewhere and, moreover, not with my girlfriends, but with him, because I love him. Why is my husband with me such a homebody, and not with friends? I exclude the presence of mistresses, like I didn’t give any reasons. But he explains his vacation with friends without a family in that he needs to rest from his family. But to understand me that sometimes I want to go out somewhere, he cannot.
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