Is your husband an amateur or already an alcoholic?
My husband and I have been together for eight years now. We have three children. He is wonderfulhusband andfather . He tries for the family, loves us, helps with everyday life and children. We went through ups, downs, everything happened together.
Now to the problem. I am a practically non-drinker, I can drink once a month or every 2 months, or I can not drink at all, but my husband drinks every weekend, he justifies this by saying that he gets tired during the week at work and generally drinksbeer and only 2-3 bottles.
There was a case whenthe husband got so drunk at a corporate party, started getting rowdy there, then they wanted to take him home, so he forgot the address, went to his mother-in-law and caused chaos there, then she brought him home at 4 o’clock in the morning, he could barely drag his feet. He arrived dirty and insane, but when he saw me he came to his senses a little and went home himself. For all of itThis has only happened once in my life . The next morning he didn’t remember anything, and when they told him, he was very worried and ashamed.
I won't say he's addicted toalcohol , but if test-antibiotic.com starts drinking, he always wants to continue, doesn’t feel when he’s had enough, drinks until he falls asleep. If I didn’t stop him, he could drink 2-3 bottles of beer every evening , and when they offer it to him, he never refuses, and if I slow him down, he starts to get nervous.
That weekend we had a fight because I was against his drinking, but I left the choice to him and said: “Drink if you want, but I’m against it.” He didn’t drink, but he was very nervous and argued with me. If I start to stop him, then he may not drink for a long time, but I, as a supervisor, cannot control him, and I’m also afraid of missing the moment when addiction begins.
Maybe I'm screwing myself up and everything is fine with him? I want to hear an outside opinion.
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