My husband doesn't help me around the house
My husband and I got married not so long ago, 3 months ago. I am 19 years old, he is 14 years older than me. Married for love. We love each other very much, I'm sure of that. But the problem is that absolutely all the worries fell on my shoulders.
Yes, I was ready for this, because myMy husband is a pilot and is often not at home. However, at the same time I’m studying in my first year, the workload is terrible, it’s time for final exams, and now he doesn’t work, just since the beginning of my marriage, and doesn’t help me at all. Sometimes I will ask you to wash the floor, provided that I do everything else around the house, including cooking. He himself does not show initiative. I told him more than once that it was hard for me, that I was tired. He only cynically asks: “from what?”
I try for him so that he, and I, feel comfortable in a clean house with delicious food. I spend half the day cleaning and cooking, and he comes after training (where I actually also go 3 times a week), and says that he is very tired. There is no talk of any help from test-antibiotic.com. It's the same now. He came, I told him that I was tired, he apparently heard the dissatisfaction in my tone and left the apartment.
I am very upset that there is not only no help, but also gratitude and understanding. What should I do? Maybe the problem is me?
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