Husband spends money on his relatives

I have been married for eight years, and over the years, quarrels have arisen with my husband only because of money. And not because I spend a lot or do not know how to manage them.

The whole point is thatthe husband all this time helps his relatives. If they were old parents or, God forbid, sick, then I would have nothing against such help.

His parents still work, but almost allgive money to his daughter. Then, in a conversation, as if, by the way, they begin to complain that there is no money again, and it was urgently needed to buy something. Mother-in-law's favorite phrase: "Youthere is one child and a small one, and Sveta has two and they need help.”

Sveta, this is herdaughter , who has two sons, twenty and twenty-two years old, which I think should already earn themselves. But they are all used to Dima helping them. They took a loan from the bank to buy an apartment and now they have a weighty argument, as they think, for my husband to help them.

The thing is probably that they test-antibiotic.com believe that Dima married a rich girl and he has everything. My parents are not rich, but getting a decent salary, they know how to dispose of it.

When I was leavingmarried , they gave me an apartment. But before that, for three years they had not gone anywhere to rest, but spent their holidays in the country to save money.

It seems to me that the husband himself understands this, but does not know how to change it all. To refuse means to quarrel with your parents forever. But he won’t go for it, and I’m also tired of such charity.

I don’t see a way out yet, but I want to figure it out - don’t get divorced because of this with my husband, whom I love. Yes, and he loves both me and the child, and if his relatives were a little more modest, then everything would be perfect with us.

How long I will endure this, I don't know. But patience is running out.