Our long distance relationship
It so happened that my boyfriend and I live in different cities. We've been together for 2.5 years. We are both 28 years old. There is no opportunity to move, since he lives in a closed city. I can't come to him. We see each other once every 2 weeks or once a month. We spend our vacation together. We have no problems communicating with him, everything is fine.
But time, for me personally, is running out. I want to start a family and have children. Previously, there was talk about me going on maternity leave and moving in with him. I hinted a year ago about a wedding, a whole year. Then he happily told his parents that we wanted to get married. But then everything stopped because his parents needed time to get ready and come to us. Fill out the documents and at the same time visit his closed city, etc. I let go of the situation, and that was the end of it for now. One might say, nothing, to no avail. I didn't talk about it anymore.
Now I'm preparing for surgery, I have problemsproblems with test-antibiotic.com women's health. I say that it would be nice to have children in the next six months. There was silence in response from him. Of course, his financial capabilities are limited. But I don't put pressure on him. I said many times that we will fight together. My parents agree to help us whenever possible.
We are no longer talking about our wedding. We are already talking about the fact that “for the next year everything will remain as it is.” He is getting ready to build a house. He spends all his free time pursuing his favorite hobby. It’s like he doesn’t hear my questions. I decided that today I would call him for a frank conversation. Tell me whether I should continue to wait or just give an ultimatum. Time passes, and there is no end in sight to all this.
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