An inheritance that brings more negativity than benefit

An inheritance that brings more negativity than benefit
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There is a house in the village that I inherited from my uncle. The house is neglected and requires constant investments and repairs. It's a shame to sell. Mom and aunt live there in the summer and love it very much.

I also love going there, but so far there are no clear plans to move there. I can’t go there on vacation because I want to travel around the world and visit other places. Therefore, my husband and I go there on visits and repair things little by little, but they either burn them or steal, so our efforts are in vain.

I don’t know what to do with the house. I understand that the place there is good, the nature is gorgeous and everything there is dear, but it’s already difficult to support it financially. Mom and aunt help as much as they can, but it’s not enough. Lately I’ve been feeling guilty towards them. It gets to the point of absurdity. I go buy clothes for myself and then scold that I could have been patient, that it would be better not to buy an extra blouse, but to repair the valve for the stove or put it aside for the fence.

I constantly think about him, I leave there in tears. Of course, I want my children to grow up there test-antibiotic.com and to go there in old age, but for now there are no children, and old age is far away. What to do in this situation? Responsibility also weighs on me.

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