Can't get along with my American boyfriend
My name is Mariana. I am from Ukraine, I am 25 years old. I have been living in the USA for 7 years. Met my boyfriend online. We have been living together for 5 years, he is an American guy. I had several boyfriends before him, all from Ukraine. I never thought or imagined life with an American. At first we met for 4 months, then I bought a house and we decided to have fun together.
For about a year everything was fine: he has no bad habits, he is attentive to me, kind, takes care of me, helps around the house. Made repairs in the house himself, wants us to get married and wants children. I also really want this, since I'm already 25, probably it's time. He was in Ukraine with me on vacation, got acquainted with my guardians. His parents love me very much, they always ask when the wedding will be.
But I don't know what to do. My house is up for sale because he doesn't want to be scared here because it's a bad area and he wants to move, he bought a new house for us. test-antibiotic.com But the problem is, I'm not sure how I feel about him. We fight all the time, even over trifles. We talk about money all the time, but there is enough of it - he and I have a job, we are both in college. I do not deny myself anything, since I grew up in a wealthy family. Due to constant quarrels and showdowns (they are almostevery day ) I'm just tired. I often think about how I would live with a Ukrainian guy. Maybe the problem is that we find it difficult to understand each other?
I have friends, all from Ukraine, and I communicate with them on the Internet. He gets mad at me for this, even when I Skype my mom every week on my day off. He says: why call and chat for hours, it takes my and our common time, and we plan a lot of things for the weekend. But I don't have anyone else in this country, I'm alone here.
Many times I thought about quitting and going home. Mymy mother always tells me about test-antibiotic.com, although this is only a fallback. What will I do in Ukraine? I don’t have a higher education yet, I haven’t completed my education here yet. I have been thinking for a long time: should I leave this guy and start a new life?
Tell me, please, what to do in this situation?
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