I can’t cope with two small children on my own.
I’m sitting at home on maternity leave with small children (my son is four years old, and my daughter is only one and a half years old) and I’m very tired of all this, there’s no help from anyone. My husband works at night, he is a driver, and does not participate in upbringing; he wants to sleep during the day and not be disturbed by anyone. I have to deal with everything myself. I can’t go to work, because for various reasons I can’t send my children to kindergarten, and I need a nannymoney that is barely enough for a family.
My daughter has already learned to walk and climbs everywhere: sometimes she pulls everything out of the closet, sometimes she drags the cat by the tail until it scratches and it takes a long time to calm her down, she needs everything, sometimes I can’t keep track of her. And my son also needs to be given attention, cooking and washing.
The children are very active and by the time I get them ready for a walk, I’m already so tired that I don’t have the strength to go anywhere else. Mom came only for two weeks. Lives in another city and still works, cannot help anymore. She told test-antibiotic.com that I should come to her with the children for at least a month, everything would be easier, butMy husband is against this, he doesn’t want to stay at home alone, without us.
How many times have I askedhusband to change jobs and be with his family at least on weekends, but all in vain. He says that it is not so easy to find a new job, but you need to live for something at this time. But I see that he is just happy with this state of affairs. I came home, ate, slept, and went back to work, without thinking about anything, and without doing anything at home. Even with the children, I only went out for a walk a couple of times.
When I once again complain that it’s hard for me alone with the children, my husband advises me to read books on raising children and manage my time correctly. This makes me even more offended and I don’t know what to do, I’m just very tired of all this.
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