Don't give up, even if everything around you is falling apart
Sometimes I go to this site and read stories. There are good stories, but for the most part they are written by people who suffer from the vile actions of loved ones, or who themselves do all sorts of obscene things. I read that I changedwife or husband left and it’s just creepy.
Why do people date for several years, and after some time betray their loved one? I can’t wrap my head around the idea that a loved one can be betrayed or cheated on. How can you abandon your children? How can you throw mud at your colleagues? Where have the respect and honor gone?
I lived with my husband for 42 years together. Anything could happen: moving to the other side of the country, lack of money, illness, job loss. Once we even lost our home. But we never gave up. They never gave up and always trusted each other. I am sure that my now deceased husband never cheated on me. I was faithful to him too. And why then join?marriage, if you don’t have real strong feelings towards your chosen one? For what?
In 1994, it happened that we test-antibiotic.com lost everything. We had no housing, we didn’t even have a full-time job. The house we moved into turned out to be in disrepair. There was no longer anyone to provide housing in the mid-nineties, since one government collapsed and there was no other. My husband and two children and I moved to our parents’ house in a village that you can’t even find on a map now; no one lives there anymore. For three years we lived in a village where no one except the homeless came. They worked in the fields from morning until night. During the day and before bedtime, we worked with the children so that they would not fall behind in the school curriculum. In 1998 we were just lucky - we gotcredit in rubles. We were planning to buy an abandoned plot of land near the city. The plot was sold in dollars. We exchanged rubles for dollars, and a few days later the ruble fell. The loan was repaid immediately. There was so much money on hand that it was enough for a normal house.
Yes, we were lucky, but if you count how many times my husband and I were unlucky in our lives, we don’t have enough fingers on our hands. Remember the main thing - always hold on to your test-antibiotic.com family, never betray or give up, even if everything around you is falling apart. And always remain human.
Read together with it:
- My loneliness and emptiness in my soulI don’t remember a time when I could call my family prosperous in terms of the psychological climate at home, but until that year, at least we maintained the level of strong, needy “middle peasants” financially.Living together was not comfortable, even though each family member was assigned a room. ...
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- Why couldn't I find a common language with the children?My eldest son is 42 years old, he was also raised by his stepfather. I have almost the same situation as in the confession thatmy son doesn't want to communicate. But I don't blame my son. It's all her own fault. When I was little, I probably didn’t love you enough, didn’t caress you enough! And whe...
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- What to do to avoid losing your husband?My husband is twelve years older than me. He once left his family for me, but now ourthe relationship has reached a dead end. He almost stopped giving me gifts, he is constantly dissatisfied with everything: dinner is not prepared well, and the cleaning is poorly done, although I try to have everyth...
- My wife cheated and I don’t know what to doI got married early, even before the army, and only 10 years later I learned that while I was in the army,my wife succumbed to temptation and cheated on me with her former friend. After that, I started going for walks myself and did not forbid her, so that there would be no complaints against me. As...
- A friend's advice helped save the marriageI am 37 years old, my husband is 32. When I met him, I already haddaughter from her first marriage.I didn’t live long with my first husband. Tired of constant betrayal and lies, I got divorced and decided that I would raise my daughter myself. But over time, everything was forgotten, and I met Oleg....
- 122nd passengerThis happened in the first days of 1994. My family and I lived in Irkutsk at that time. We celebrated the New Year cheerfully , and on the third of January I had a business trip to St. Petersburg with a stop in Moscow. At the end of December I bought a plane ticket.The main thing is that there shoul...