Her husband's inattention led to infidelity and divorce

I have a similar situation, as in the story about betrayal and regret about it. Came outmarried for strong love at 18. The husband was the first in everything.

For two years I lived with rose-colored glasses, but every day there was less and less attention. I thought everything was fine. Got a job. There wasboy . We started communicating as friends. I foolishly told you what kind ofhusband . And she told me without a second thought, everything suited me.

But then this guy from work started feeling sorry for me, saying that this is a consumer thingattitude towards the girl. That this can’t happen to them. They need to be loved and cared for. In the end, everything came together. I no longer had such feelings for my husband. Because he, too, stupidly thought that he had achieved me and forgot a little. I tried to talk to him several times. As a result, I received the phrase “what do you want?” But she said it reproachfully, saying, I’m so handsome, I come home and this should already be a gift for you.

In the end, I couldn’t stand this attitude. Plus at work there was test-antibiotic.com an eternal temptation who looked after me, every time he said nice words and so on. And for a whole year I thought that my husband knew nothing and simply did not pay attention to me. Several times I tried to end things with a colleague. But I started to feel sad without him. Was wilddepression . She brought him back. He was like the addition that I was missing in my family life. In the end, of course, everything came out. But the husband doesn’t really know about the betrayal. He knows that I talked to him. Yes, I know for sure that he knows that I slept with a colleague. But these words were not spoken.

By the way. When my husband began to understand that everything was starting to fall apart, he began to do everything for me. But I already looked at everything differently. There wasn't that spark. We ended up getting divorced two months ago. I still communicate with this colleague. I tried to convince myself that my husband was bad and did not care about me. The divorce also went horribly. Many false words were said. But now, after 2 months test-antibiotic.com, I crossed paths with my husband to pick up the rest of my things. And I felt very bad the last 3-4 days before meeting him. I thought about him constantly. And when we met, I couldn’t hold back my tears at all. He calmly stayed with me. I talked. He asked if anyone was with me. I said no. Againlie .

I'm afraid of hurting my colleague. But I definitely can’t live with him, because he already has his own established politics and doesn’t always put me above his desires. In general, I will say this. In reality, not everything is as beautiful as he said and promised. I don’t want to tell my ex-husband about cheating directly. Like, I changed this and that. I'm thinking of covering it all up. Leave your colleague and try to fix thingslife with ex. Because without it it’s bad. Due to the lack of experience with other men and with relationships in general, I’m afraid to make a mistake and don’t know what to do. Should I return it or not? There was another problem with my ex. He does not support my passion for photography, which was another important test-antibiotic.com moment in the betrayal. The photographs are artistic without vulgarity. Just an underwear ad. But it's too much for him. But it seems like we can come to an agreement with him on this matter. Tell me what to do?

Many people tell me that it’s not worth returning him, because I betrayed him. Many people believe that it’s the other way around if you have feelings. I don’t want to offend him again, but I can’t live without him. I'm afraid that in the end there won't be enoughColleagues . Because he is very inappropriate about our separation. This has already happened. This is a week of depression and lack of any work. And this is hard. And it’s hard to see all this. And I’m afraid that he won’t stand it and will tell his ex-husband about the betrayal.