The ill-bred son of my sister-in-law

I have always had equalrelationship with his son. Raised alone, together with my grandmother. Since he is a military man, he found himself in distant Chukotka a woman 4 years older than himself, also with a 13-year-old son, divorced. She is alreadypregnant by my son.

I recently got outmarried at 51. My husband and I were looking forward to them, all three of them came on vacation. The daughter-in-law's son is spoiled, ill-mannered, boorish, arrogant and also dirty, although, as she says, he is an excellent student. He is allowed a lot - to skip school at will, not to clean up after himself, etc. My husband and I did not react very much at first, but after a month of living together, he began to make comments to this boy. And ran into a major scandal from the future daughter-in-law! With slamming doors, shouting: “educate your own, don’t change mine in a month!”. Yes, he was not going to change it. Just ran out of patienceman , mymy husband lives in my area.

After a pause (I was just dumbfounded by surprise), I told my husband: “let's go to test-antibiotic.com friends for an apartment, we'll live until they go back.” We lived for two more days, on the part of her and her son a complete disregard began, so we left. I told them: “since you cannot live together, then we will leave for now.” A week went by, no call. I call my son, he is offended, he speaks with the words “daughter-in-law”, I can directly hear: “I should have said a remark, and I myself will make a suggestion to my son. I protected my son." But we were all sitting at the same table when this conflict happened, and she saw everything, which means she encourages her son’s rudeness towards us. But my son took her position. Well done, of course, it means that I raised him well, that he is not a mommy's son. Yes, but that doesn't make it any easier. Now I call him, he doesn’t pick up the phone or talks to me briefly and dryly. She put everything in that light in order to make a guilty person out of my husband. Soon they will leave, and I will not see my son again for a year. So let's part coldly.