The father wants to give the apartment to his son from his first marriage

The father wants to give the apartment to his son from his first marriage
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I am 26 years old. I have been dating a young man for 2 years now, everything is heading towards the wedding, we are planning to have it in early September. In the meantime, we each live with our parents.

My parents have been married for many, many years. But for both of them this is the secondmarriage _ My younger brother and I are the common children of our mother and father. Dad also has an eldest son from his first marriage and we never communicated. That's what I decided from the very beginningmom .

FirstMy father’s wife became disabled a few weeks after their divorce and for some reason demanded an increase in alimony for the maintenance of their common son, and also constantly insisted that he should send more money. So I partly understand my mother.

And recently my mother’s lonely aunt died. She did not have children, so housing in the form of a one-room apartment in Moscow went to her mother 9 months ago. My grandmother on my mother’s side has been gone for a long time; in fact, we live in her apartment. And my paternal grandmother died just test-antibiotic.com a month after my mother’s aunt. And after that, there was also a one-roomapartment _ Inherited herfather . He said: “Now we need to sell both of these apartments and give them to the children for a down payment.”

Mom was surprised at his decision, because they remain in our apartment, and the inherited ones will accordingly be inherited by my brother and me. But dad, hesitating, said that he wanted to leave at least something for his eldest son. Then mom started a scandal! Everyone got it, even my father’s late mother. She said that she didn't want to know anything about that son and he hadmother and maternal grandmother, so let them leave him an inheritance. Moreover, he is already over thirty and can already earn money for housing. And so they gave him almost half his salary until he was 18 years old.

I supported my father, but knowing my mother’s tough character, I didn’t want to interfere. And I wanted a separate apartment, not a mortgage. After all, as I already said, I’m going tomarried _ As a result, I agreed that my mother, secretly from my father, would register her aunt’s apartment in my name. She said test-antibiotic.com that my father would have no choice but to do the same with his inheritance, transferring it to my younger brother. And his son is a stranger to all of us. His father saw him as a child.

But it turned out completely differently. When my father found out, he was very offended. He said that now he is completely giving his one-room apartment to his eldest son. And I, as a decent person, should sell what was given to me and share the money with my brother. My brother was also offended that they didn’t tell him anything. He sided with his father and moved with his girlfriend to a rented apartment.

I don’t want us to stop communicating with my brother because of the inheritance, especially since my parents are almost getting a divorce. My father said that he would not change his decision, and my mother and I were to blame for this. His mother gave him an ultimatum, otherwisedivorce _ I regret that I didn’t convince my mother at the very beginning.

Tell me how to fix this situation? Or is it too late?

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