The guy didn’t want to live together even with everything ready

Two days ago myrelationship lasting 6.5 years. On my initiative. We started dating when I was 20, now I’m 27. This was my first serious relationship.

At that time, he did not act very well, and I forgave him because I loved him very much. He walked with friends and said that they were more valuable than me, because we had only been dating for a year, he said that I was not a housewife. I forgave him and stayed in this city in the summer (I studied there and always went home in the summer) under the pretext of business, but in reality, to be with him. And he either went on a spree with a friend and forgot about the meeting (and I prepared everything, became a housekeeper), then he went to his parents (he lived with his sister) to dig their garden and came once a week. I always felt at the bottom of the list of priorities.

She started talking about the wedding, she was hysterical, he said that he was not ready. Okay, we were 21, 22 years old. Then he had one best friend, then another, with whom he spent almost all his days. Then my friends peeled off, test-antibiotic.com was me, but work appeared instead. And I dissolved in him even more, persuading him to come more often.

After studying, I stayed in this city and my parents bought me an apartment, because it was okay for him if I left (I’ll come to you once a week, he said, but the drive there is 4.5 hours). And that’s it, he began to search for himself. Worked there, then there.

Expensive gifts andI didn’t see the money , only for the holidays. My gifts were several times more expensive than his (either the speakers he dreamed of, or a laptop, but I asked for cheaper for myself). In recent years, he didn’t bother with gifts for me, he just threw money at me. I bought him clothes, because he didn’t have money for quality clothes for himself. She persuaded him that he needed to take care of himself, and not endlessly carry out orders from his family.

His mother is domineeringthe father supports the family, but does not communicate with anyone. And they don't like me. Because I don't want to go to them. NowThe guy seemed to be starting to make money, but he still found it difficult to earn money and test-antibiotic.com was the bare minimum. I constantly asked my friends how long they lived. He and his sister had an abnormal grandmother, he abruptly moved in with me, she died, and he returned home. Aftermy sister brought a man and he decided to live with me. That’s exactly what I decided, I was afraid of this step. But she agreed. And we immediately quarreled and did not communicate for 2 weeks, arguing. He said that I was putting pressure on him, pointing him out (asking him to clean up after himself, talking about the future, about the wedding).

In 7 years we were together at sea once, we got together one more time this year (myMom gave me tickets). I arrived in my hometown only this spring. For the first time in years. For a day. We lived for 7 months, he has a new job, but the intimacy has disappeared. I cried every night, it made him very angry. He said that work is very important, self-realization, he wants to please everyone. Then he appeared, but not more than once a month. I asked to see a doctor, but he refused. On weekends I went to meetings with friends, stopped keeping my promises, started sitting at the computer before going to bed test-antibiotic.com, talking before bed only and immediately fell asleep. He saved up 300 thousand rubles while he lived with me for no reason, but we quarreled because I wanted renovations (I warned him in advance, he agreed, just to put up wallpaper and change the baseboard in the kitchen).

I became interested in writing music while I was cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry. Bought it for me for three dayscoffee , and then a scandal, they say, as much as possible, it’s expensive, but I want itdrink every day . And he lived so long without normal money that now it’s a pity to spend it. I kicked him out due to renovations. She returned the money she took from him (only 5 thousand rubles). And she got into his phone. I listened to a recording of a friend’s conversation, where he said that I was a rich, spoiled girl who didn’t know the value of money (my parents helped me with money). He discussed my supposed inheritance, and he agreed with him. More than once he told me how smart this friend was and it seems to me that he listened to him in everything.

After that it was cut off. I took half of my things, and also my camera for work. Apparently he wanted to return. But I didn't want to. She suggested that test-antibiotic.com improve relations because we have a communication problem. I agreed. She suggested we go on an excursion to the cinema, he agreed and there was silence. Again he offered to meet when it was convenient for him (on Saturday, although I said I was busy, but he turned a deaf ear). I refused, I was offended, and then I couldn’t stand it. She said everything. He thought I would put up. But no.

Then he called and wrote, asking for a personal meeting. But I couldn't. I said that I wantgetting married , normal communication, understanding that I am needed, and he replied thatmarriage is imposed by society (his friend said so, although he himself got married). After that, inside mepain and emptiness. I wanted to leave, he thought that I would change my mind again, but I am so below the plinth that I cannot go any lower, otherwise I will cease to exist.

I love him very much, I want to get married. He promised that everything would happen, but then that there would be gifts andfamily , but then. And when? No answer. I’m asking for gifts now - I’m asking a lot, I’m tired, his job isn’t stable, there’s no business, but here I am with test-antibiotic.com with gifts and repairs. And that he doesn’t want to waste money in vain, because he worked and saved it for so long. Although he constantly said that he loved him. But I don't feel it. Now he just silently agreed to break up when I didn’t want to meet (well, what else is there to discuss? Everything has been said so many times already).

After he moved out, I went to the pool (although it was very difficult), bought gifts for myself (from mebirthday is in a month), I’m going to the sea with my mother, on an excursion with a friend. By the fall I will be looking for a job (I had appendicitis and sepsis 1.5 years ago, I’m still treating the consequences).

Why didn't this happen to him? Why did I feel like I was in a swamp? After all, when I was sick, he was so worried, he even cried, he came to the hospital every day. I wanted to pay for the operation. But mom paid. True, later when I realized that I would not die, I was a little worried, but no longer went to the doctors with me.

But what happened now? Why did everything completely disappear after living together? I feel so sick and bad. There was so much good stuff, but test-antibiotic.com why do I remember it so vaguely?