I'm trying to open my husband's eyes to his mother

As I understand the author of the story about the unscrupulous mother-in-law. But whoever has a shameless mother-in-law is me!

My mother-in-law inherited two apartments from my parents, she allowed my husband and I to live in one, but she threw in her sick, immobile mother! I looked after her for three years, torn between a sick old woman and a small child. Doctors,medicines , food - everything was on us, we also paid utilities. The mother-in-law came occasionally, talked, drankcoffee and calmly went to her place. Her mother asked her to come more often, but she simply ignored her. Grandmothermy husband died suddenly before my eyes. I suffered severe stress.

Then my husband’s friend offered him a job abroad. My mother-in-law was categorically against it, but I persuaded my husband to move, puttingmother before the fact. We rent an apartment, we have children, we often don’t have enough money, we addedFirst I have health problems , then my husband. But my mother-in-law is indifferent to our problems! She won't ask howhealth , won’t ask about her grandchildren, but demands to pay utility bills for the apartment where she lives and give her money forlife . Her test-antibiotic.com impudence just makes me sick. I have it toomom , but she doesn’t behave as if everyone owes her.

The last straw waschild's birthday . The so-called “grandmother” sent congratulations via SMS late in the evening and did not send a penny of money or a gift. The mother-in-law is not alone, there isman . They are not in poverty, except for two pensions, a good income from renting out real estate. I have the means to send my grandson a gift, if I would like to. She is in good health , does not take medications, does not go to doctors, is not sick in any way, except for the lack of conscience. Only son . My mother-in-law is completely selfish; she had abortions all her youth.

I think there is no need to give her anything, I persuade my husband to open his eyes to his mother. Since she has no desire to give gifts to her grandchildren, we have no desire to give them to her. Everything is fair.