My friend criticizes everyone
Annoys mefriend with her judgments about people.
The friend considers herself ambitious, but at the same time she is not. In my head, in my dreams, there is supposedly a high bar somewhere, but in real life it does nothing. But that's her business.
The only thing that irritates me here is that she is very critical in the judgments of other people, people who live like her (with a small salary, without interest in anything). She condemns how one can be so passive and not strive for anything. She devalues other people’s achievements, no matter who we are talking about, all other people’s merits for her, either “well, that’s easy”, “well, I can do it too, but I don’t want to”, “well, this is not an achievement, why elevate it to the rank of heights”, while We are talking about something that even 0.1% does not have. As an example, she said about a person with a salary of about 15 thousand € that this is not much (so you understand, her salary is 15 times less). And it’s the same in all areas. Someone has achieved something and says it’s easy.
I usually don't answer test-antibiotic.com to her, because... We are very close and I think that there can be any dialogue between friends, there are no filters, but lately for some reason it has started to irritate me. On the one hand, I shouldn't care at all,life is hers. I’m just sorry to see my friend become an armchair critic, but being sure that someday she will become the second Elon Musk, and everyone else is “not on the level” for her, you see. Is it worth trying to pull her out of the swamp of inaction?
How did you behave? By also devaluing others, she indirectly devalues me too. Should I explain it to her? Once I tried, she said that I had made it all up. How should I respond to her devaluing others? Just keep quiet?
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