After a divorce, I'm afraid to build a new relationship

She recently divorced her husband. They were together for about five years. Divorced quickly, on his initiative. Why, he didn't say. My opinion is that I have not had time to work up yet. He drank about four days out of seven, not drunkenly, of course, but not a little. Was it eitherbeer or whiskey and rum and cola. I told him more than once that he drinks a lot and often, but in response only that I am not an alcoholic, that you have become attached to me. His father was asleephis mother divorced him.

Now I have a new relationship, with my ex-husband they are completely different, but again the problem of alcohol. I myself like to drink, but in moderation. I mean, in principle, I take alcohol calmly, because of a couple of glasses of beer on the weekend I will not throw a tantrum. When I saw that my new young man also drinks beer several times a week, I started to wind myself up. Then she calmed down a little when she saw that he could easily not finish drinking, because test-antibiotic.com didn’t want to.

And recently we were visiting, drinking accordingly, and he told me that he, one might say, comes from a dysfunctional family. That his parents are drinkers, that his father raised his hand to his mother, that he is embarrassed by his parents, which is why he rarely visits them (so as not to see this), so he doesn’t introduce me to them yet. At the same time, he now practically does not see his “friends” at all, I understand that there is no intelligentsia there. I've worked myself up in a way that's hard to imagine. I'm afraid, I'm afraid that he will repeat his father.

I'm not bad-looking, economic, quite pretty, not stupid, educated, with a good job. It's not the only chance to get outget married again. Sometimes it seems to me now that I am turning into a kind of Mother Teresa, who shows an adult guy what a normal life and normalfamily . A firm desire to leave him, no, so I would not seek advice. Able to close the door and not stretch the parting.