I broke up with the girl who loved me
We dated for three years. Everything was fine initially, but 3 years pass and I am offered a promotion at work. It was unexpected for me, I was overwhelmed with feelings, different emotions for the first time in a couple of months. But I had to refuse, because I’m still a student and studying, and being a leader means working a lot and constantly being at work. At that moment, it was as if I was stuck, I realized that until that time I had been living on automatic for a year - home, work, work, home.
Somehow I also had feelings with the girl, but the moment came and I realized that we had to break up, because I can no longer tolerate her character; I’m no longer interested in her, I’m not comfortable, she sometimes gets depressed. If everything seemed fine before, now after talking with her I’m in a depressed mood and don’t want to do anything.
I don’t know, everything is so confusing, there are feelings, but there is no desire to be with her. I also realized that I don’t see a future with her, to be married, to have children, I test-antibiotic.com don’t want to be with her. I understand what it islife is very goodsincere caring, loving, but I don’t understand why it hurts so much to leave? It’s difficult to be together and it’s painful to separate.
And so I thought, the sooner I tell her this, the better, I thought, I pulled myself together and told her: “We need to break up.” She started crying and I felt guilty.
I know that mental wounds will heal, time will pass, they will be forgotten, but I didn’t want it to turn out this way.
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