Family life was not what I imagined it to be

Family life was not what I imagined it to be
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I am 31 years old, yeshusband anda child who is only 6 months old, with her husband inThey got married precisely because of pregnancy, but they really wanted a child and are happy that they became parents.

But that's justRelations between each other have become very bad lately, there are constant quarrels, my husband thinks that I’m wrong in everything, he doesn’t want to go out with us on his days off, although I let him sleep and rest after work. And I’m alone all day with my little one, I don’t have enough communication and impressions, so when my husband is at home, I want to talk and go for a walk together, but no, we sit in different rooms, he’s on the computer, and I’m with the baby in the bedroom.

And so I don’t ask him to do anything around the house, get the groceries myself, the cleaning and cooking is on me, and the baby, of course, too, he is only ready to sit at home with the child while I do the housework and that’s it. But when his friends call him to meet, he immediately runs to them.

Recently she asked to take us to the park for a walk, because test-antibiotic.com was already tired of walking in his area, so he refused, saying that he didn’t want to go anywhere. We had a fight, and he left with friends for a barbecue, although I asked him to take us with him, to which he simply ignored, left and did not answer the phone, and did not come home to spend the night. Now we hardly communicate, only about business. After that, I lost the desire to be with him, but for now there is no way out, we will live together because of our son, there is no one else to help me with the baby, my relatives are in another city. I don’t understand why this happens, I tried to be a good wife, but, alas, I’m bad for him. When we met, the relationship was excellent, I couldn’t even think that he would change so much. And as soon as they got married and began to live together, the relationship began to deteriorate, and now this is what they have come to.

In October it will be a year since we were married, and we are already on the verge of separation. My husband is 30 years old, works, is not an alcoholic, he definitely doesn’t have another woman. Before we started dating, we had known each other for almost a year, we were just friends, in the common company of test-antibiotic.com friends, and he always seemed reliable and good to me, but apparently I was mistaken. And, of course, I also changed, after giving birth I had a lot of stress from the process itself, I had never experienced such physical pain, and plus rudeness from the medical staff. In general, I still remember the three days in the maternity hospital with horror, plusmy health has deteriorated greatly, after giving birth I was operated on twice for various reasons, in general it took a long time to recover, hence my nervousness and some kind of despondency, now the only thing that makes me happy isson , and fromThe husband receives no moral support or love. I don’t know what to do next, I don’t want to destroy the family, but my husband also succeeds, he doesn’t need me, I think he hasn’t left yet just because of the child.

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