His son won't let me visit him

His son won't let me visit him
Photo is illustrative in nature. From open sources.

I don’t even know for what purpose I am writing all this. I don’t want my son to be judged and pitied for me, and vice versa. I just hope that from the outside I will hear similar life stories and maybe the anxiety will ease from my heart.

My son is 18 years old, rents a house, works. I'm very proud of him. He and I have always had very trustingrelationships , respect. Yes, this is still the case now, but our meetings are exclusively at our home, he doesn’t invite us to his place. I'm not one of those who likes to break into someone else'slife without knocking, no time to bother and unexpected guests, but once I asked if my father and I could come over for tea, we missed her. And the answer still doesn’t fit in my head. He said a firm “no.” Neithermom , not dad, not any relatives.

He comes in with pleasure, calls, writes. But it’s somehow difficult for me to realize thatmy son won't let me in the door. I once found an article that there are such people, but they don’t let anyone in at all, but here only relatives, but friends are allowed. I’ve been trying to digest this for the third test-antibiotic.com month now.

How so? Maybe I don’t understand something, and now they also practice it this way?

Thank you in advance for your attention.

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