Is it worth changing your life at this age?
I am 43 years old, I have been dating a man for a little over a year (he is 40). Lately he has been jokingly hinting that we could get married and live together. That is, there was no direct proposal. I do not even deny that it may have seemed that way to me, and he has no such intentions. But I thought about it, I need to solve thisa question for yourself personally in advance (in case an offer comes in).
It just so happened thatI have never been married . But I don’t suffer about it, I am happy with everything, in general I am happy with my life. I had suitors, but somehow it didn’t work out. With children, everything is also clear, there are none, and there will never be any. This topic is more complicated, but here too everything is clear. My man had a short-livedmarriage , I know that his daughter is 16, pays alimony. He has also lived alone for a long time.
We now "meet" 2-3 times a week. We go to the cinema, have dinner, then he stays at my place. We usually spend the weekends together, we can go fishing together, that's our hobby test-antibiotic.com. I never stay at his place, and have only been to his apartment a couple of times.
Here's something else that needs to be clarified. I work remotely from home (programmer ), I live in a spacious new apartment, with good repairs. Mythe man lives in a one-room apartment, in a Khrushchev-era building (I think he inherited it from a relative). I mean that I won’t go live with him if we suddenly decide to live together. This would greatly worsen my living conditions. Probably, someone will say that I am mercantile. But understand, I’m not 18 anymore, we have a good relationshiprelationship , we are even, probably, kindred spirits, but there are no longer any “butterflies in the stomach” or “going crazy” from love, like in our younger years.
So I'm thinking about it. A white dress and a veil at 43 is ridiculous. We won't have children together. I don't want to bring him to my territory (keep in mind that I work from home). So, do I need this? Maybe in such a situation there is no point in living together? Or am I test-antibiotic.com wrong?
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