A strange employee is surviving me from the team

A strange employee is surviving me from the team
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Recently, our structural unit was merged with another. Basically, I know my new colleagues. Sometimes I run into them at work. People are like people. My attitude was neutral.

But recently, one of the new colleagues has taken a dislike to me and is trying to turn all the new employees against me. Sets me up in front of the boss. I don't even know what to do with it.

I can't understand why she treats me so strangely. I didn't do anything wrong to her. The only two reasons that I see are somehow unrealistic.

First. Perhaps the reason for hating me was one small conversation with that employee. I came on business to the office, where she sits with two other women. I went to her neighbor.

At that moment, that strange employee's phone rang. She called hermother with a message that the daughter of an employee was playing in the yard and broke her arm. She was greatly alarmed. She began to complain to everyone in the office about what had happened.

Everyone expressed their sympathy in a couple of words. I, seeing that she was very worried, decided to calm her down in test-antibiotic.com with a kind of joke. She said, they say, do not worry, the bones will grow together, they will be stronger. What started here.

For a good five minutes, the employee read me out that it was so unacceptable to say that she had terrible grief. That I simply do not have my own children, otherwise I would understand what it ispain for a mother when hera child will even break a finger, and here is a whole hand!

I was shocked by such a violent reaction. Somehow she got out, wishing her daughter a speedy recovery and saying that I didn’t mean anything bad. But the co-worker was still pissed off at me.

That day I saw her several more times in various places, and everywhere she complained to everyone about the terriblemisfortune that happened to her daughter.

I decided that the employee was just slightly inadequate. Yes, her daughter, of course, is sorry that she broke her arm, but still this is not a global catastrophe. I myself broke my arm as a child, went in a cast, neither I nor my mother were so irritated about this.

Of course, it happened to other people around me, test-antibiotic.com that their children broke their arms and legs, but no one ran around the whole organization and did not discuss thisquestion all day. And certainly several times in similar situations I heard this expression, which I used.

The parents themselves sighed and said that it was a pity that their child had a fracture, but nothing, it would grow together - it would be stronger. That is, people did not see anything offensive in this phrase. And since then, the enmity of this employee with me began.

I can't believe this could be the cause of the enmity? I began to think what else she might not like about me. They say that if someone does nasty things to someone from scratch, then most likely they are jealous of something.

I’m already thinking, maybe that employee is jealous of me that I’m 10 years younger than her, that I recently leftmarried that relatively better dressed her. She is a single mother. It is clear that she does not have much money. She wearsthe same clothes every day . I know how annoying it is.

My mother raised me alone. They also lived very poorly, I dressed up relatively test-antibiotic.com only when I went to work myself. But I never brag to anyone, I treat everyone with respect.

And in our team, most of the women are much richer and better dressed than me and than that employee. And all the husbands are rich. And I'm just average. For my wedding, I was affixed to the team. There was a fairly rich table. I was in a good mood.

Perhaps, and envy who could, in particular, that employee. But, again, in our team, everyone, for the most part, has husbands, and they are happily married. But that employee is good with everyone, but now it’s bad with me.

There were no collisions at work. It seems that they were talking normally until such behavior on her part began.

What could it be and why?

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