Mother-in-law wants us to support her
I got married at 31, my husband is 32. Both are well-formed personalities. After the wedding (just after), the mother-in-law began to demand from usmoney for your maintenance. She is 65. In addition to my husband, she has three more adult children. But they are worse off in life: the eldest son drinks, the daughter gave birth to four children from different men and she has nothing to feed them. The youngest son serves in the army under a contract, and there is practically none of him.
She demands full maintenance from us: payment of a communal apartment (for the house where she lives, her eldest son is an alcoholic and a sister with 4 children),products , hobbies, etc. And it would be fine, but we had a long-awaited and planned daughter. I'm on maternity leave, my husband has problems at work. Money is not enough. We live in my parents' apartment (they unofficially gave it to me), from my husband's salary, a communal apartment for our three-room apartment, food for the family, clothes and the maintenance of a little daughter. I work, I try. Mainly at night.
Trite, yesterday I worked at the computer until half past three in the morning to earn at least some penny, and my mother-in-law calls test-antibiotic.com this morning and says, I want to go to the Crimea for the May holidays! Give me 30,000. My husband has serious problems at work. A family with a small child, but she needs to go to Crimea!
And she began to blackmail her husband, saying: “I will write you out of the apartment, you will be homeless, if you don’t give money for the trip, I am your family.” I'm grossed out. No,my husband refused, of course, but I see that it’s hard for him, and I’m really disgusted in such a situation.
How to do it right?
Read together with it:
- Unexpected meeting with ex-boyfriendI am 23 years old. From the age of 17 to 21 I had my firstLove . We were like we looked perfect from a movie. The relationship is perfect. These were precisely those feelings that did not cool down, despite the time. But at 19 I get pregnant. I tell him about this, and he says that I need to have an...
- What should I do if my husband raises his hand against me?My husband and I have been together for three years, and we’ve been living together for almost two and a half. While we were dating, he treated me normally, but as soon as we started living together, he began to raise his hand against me, even when I was pregnant.I have two children,daughter from hi...
- Как загладить вину перед дочерью?Дочке семь лет, уже год она просит завести котенка, даже на день рождения просила такой подарок или вообще никакого. Я люблю животных, но заботиться и возиться, с ними у меня нет времени, я знала, что Алена только обещает сама все делать, но потом через день два ей это надоест. Да и корм с наполните...
- Noisy musical talent next doorMy name is Konstantin, I am 37 years old. I live alone in a small apartment left from my parents in a panel house with good audibility. I have good onesrelations with all neighbors. At least, they were good until recently, when a young talent appeared in the neighbor’s apartment, passionately intere...
- Why couldn't I find a common language with the children?My eldest son is 42 years old, he was also raised by his stepfather. I have almost the same situation as in the confession thatmy son doesn't want to communicate. But I don't blame my son. It's all her own fault. When I was little, I probably didn’t love you enough, didn’t caress you enough! And whe...