Mother-in-law is stealing money from the family

Mother-in-law is stealing money from the family
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My husband and I have in the pastdivorce and for a child from a previous marriage. Both have sons. Mine is 15 years old, after the divorce he lives with me, does not communicate with his father. His son is also 15, after the divorce he lives with his mother-in-law - exwife came outgot married and moved to another city, leaving her son with her mother-in-law. The husband and son communicate rarely and coolly. I'm in themI don’t get involved in relationships , I think it’s none of my business, although at the beginning of the relationship I showed initiative, invited people to visit, organized trips for the four of us, but this turned out to be of no use to anyone and the boy and my mother-in-law pointed me to my place, you’re a stranger to him, so you’re not climb. Since then I haven’t climbed. No one broke up anyone’s marriage ; at the time they met, both had been divorced for more than two years.

My husband and I live in my apartment, we both work with average earnings. My exthe husband pays the minimum alimony for his son, the current husband also pays alimony for his (mother-in-law) a little more than the minimum. Ex-wifeThe husband does not give money to his son. test-antibiotic.com

The essencethe problem is that my husband and I decidedgive birth to a child together, approached this responsibly, collectedmoney , were tested, treated (for 2.5 years nothing worked). When the long-awaitedpregnancy , during the process I developed health problems that required significant financial investments (almost all reserves went totreatment , although I tried to work as hard as I could and resorted to conservation only as a last resort).

Now I’m due to go on maternity leave in 2 weeks, I’m about to give birth, and my husband is having problems at work - his salary has been cut by almost 2 times, and we’re barely making ends meet. Will be born in 2 monthschild , and there is barely enough money even for the necessary things - a crib and a stroller. And then, on New Year’s Day, my mother-in-law calls and begins to lament that she doesn’t have enough money to support her grandson and wants us to increase the amount of alimony. She also called her ex-daughter-in-law, she sent her away, and now my mother-in-law has taken charge of us and gets on our nerves almost every day, saying: “You are obliged to support the child!”

I initially agreed at work, test-antibiotic.com, that when I go on maternity leave, I will still continue to work remotely (my specialty allows it), but it turns out that I will work with a newborn child in my arms in order to provide the “wants” of my mother-in-law and her grandson, who Let me remind you that they themselves told me that I was “someone else’s aunt and don’t interfere!” My husband and I discussed thisquestion , he is trying to earn more, but so far nothing is working.

I feel sorry for my husband too, he’s between two fires, and I’m tired of being nervous (I want to go on maternity leave, like all women - to enjoy motherhood, and not rock the cradle with one hand, and work with the other and still fight off my mother-in-law). And I don’t know what to do with my mother-in-law. We (both my husband and I) said that now we cannot afford to increase the amount of alimony, that there will be another child, but she is like peas against the wall.

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