Married without love, now I'm paying the price
I'm 23 andpregnant , 6 months pregnant. I live with my husband (he is 25) and his mother. We got married not long ago, I’m still youngfamily . I haven’t worked for almost a year and mostly stay at home.
The problem is that I'm not happyhe and his family are not happy with the apartment where we live. Before him, I had a carefree and happy life, after I met him, life began to change significantly and not in a good way for me.
Initially, I knew that nothing would work out between us and did not think of him as a future husband, but since I became pregnant, I already had to accept him with all the disadvantages. I thought that I could change it at least a little and agreed with a risk. He's not a freak, he's caring, a little rough,proud and stubborn (we are two Aries and we have the same characters).
At the beginning of the relationship, he loved me very much, and it was noticeable, and he talked about it! Now I’m not happy with a lot of things and irritate me, especially the fact that test-antibiotic.com doesn’t work and we are provided with itmom . Accordingly, I cannot afford everything that I would like, since it is not hismoney . We have to wait like alms until his mother gives us something. But he tries, he taxis around in his brother’s car and little things (products ,fruits , sweets) he buys me.
Now I doubt him and think that he is cheating on me, his stubbornness and nervousness, some habits and his character just infuriate me. I want to break up, but I can’t - I don’t want to upset my parents now. But I am becoming more and more convinced that he and I have neither love, nor passion, nor understanding and support.
Maybe it's just depression? Talking to him to no avail, scolding him or calmly explaining him doesn’t help either.
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