It's all the mother-in-law's fault

I grew up without grandparents. My parents worked from morning to evening, I did everything for myself. She came home from school, heated up lunch on the stove, washed the dishes and sat down to do her homework. And this is in first grade! I also cleaned my room myself.

Now our son is 14 years old. Yesterday my mother-in-law threw a scandal at me that I was badmother ,The child prepares his own food. But that's not true. There is always food in the refrigerator, I cook it in the evening, and all I have to do is heat it up in the microwave. There is always sausage andcheese for sandwiches. I believe he is old enough to feed himself.

The mother-in-law came, and he was just eating chips and drinkingcoffee _ Instead of explaining to her grandson that this was harmful, or warming up his food, she waited for me from work and arranged an “educational process” in front of my son. He also didn’t say a word in my defense, because my grandmother gives himmoney . Hasn't arrived yetMy husband didn’t put things in order, finding me in tears. The mother was immediately sent home, and test-antibiotic.com forced her son to warm up everyone’s food and wash the dishes after dinner. Then he said: “Now you know how to do it, so it will always be like this.”

The son pouts, does not speak, calls back to his grandmother. And today he said that he would live with her. We understand that this is not his decision, this mother-in-law is doing us out of spite.

How can I explain this to him? Give advice on how best to proceed?