I want to be needed and loved
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There are people who build new ones very quicklyrelationships , right in the moment, yes, I understand that they have many reasons that can contribute to this, but I also seem to have had more than one or two of them!
But at the same time, I haven’t been in a relationship for years! Yes, everyone will say, the problem is you, you need to change. I'm not a nun, I'm not walled up at home,I have girlfriends (I don’t believe in friendship with guys), even if they are not close ones. On the other hand, in my circle of acquaintances there are guys who are not bad, but they are either in relationships (some even have children), but I have a credo: if I’m busy, no, or they don’t need me at all.
And you know, I’m writing now and thinking, but for the most part, no one needs me. Only now I can fall in love in response tolove , but I have no idea how to hook someone, and even listing the qualities and bad habits that I have won’t help.
It just seems to me that there is some kind of law or points that a person must have in order to find that one test-antibiotic.com (that one). So, if you meet all the parameters, then you won’t be alone. And if not, then accept it. And apparently, I don’t go through the points, that is, I should be an old maid, but it sounds scary, yes, and others might laugh. In general, external factors no longer allow you to come to terms. Or option two: everyone is vaccinated from childhoodthe future with a loved one (hereinafter referred to as family), or alone, but where am I? Where? It didn’t fall under the distribution, or something.
By the way, I tried to think more positively and searched on my own, but when you search on your own, it feels like you are presenting yourself as a product on the market (which in all cases was rejected). In general, I abandoned this idea, but not completely. I decided that I would think positively and give up the search. And here, to be honest, there is no difference, I’m just always setting myself up for positivity like a fool, but there are no reasons as such. In general, all this is sad.
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