I want to talk and talk about my relationship with a married man
I stumbled upon this site by accident, I just wanted to read.
I have been working at a meat processing plant since I was 17, as a moulder (now I am 20). I wouldn't say pretty, but pretty. About 7 months ago, to me in the social. network addedguy , on the page there is only music and a status about his love for me. At first I was wondering what kind of fan, but the guy only wrote that he knows what I do, where I live, that he knows my sisters (I have 3 sisters and everyone works in the same position at the meat processing plant). I started thinking about a friend with whom I worked at the same enterprise, went to gyms, and shared secrets. I asked directly, to which I received a negative answer.
fan wroteevery day . He wrote about himself that he is married and has children. On mythe question of what else is missing, he replied: "Understanding." We talked on various topics, at my request to write about myself, all that he answered was that he had been watching me for a long time, that he loved me. In the end, we talked.
After 2 weeks, he decided to show up. When I found out who test-antibiotic.com was, I couldn't breathe, I couldn't believe my eyes when I read it. I could assume any man from our enterprise, except for him. It wasthe husband of our senior foreman, Tatyana (I don’t know how she is in life, but the workers spoke coldly about her). I knew about him that his name was Sergei and he came to us to earn some money with his people and was friends with the authorities.
He began to ask to meet, but I kept the defense. I didn't think it was right, but a week later he persuaded me. He came for me with a huge bouquet, we stopped at the nearest cafe, and I asked the question that worried me the most: how did he find me and, most importantly, why? His answer was dumbfounded: “I have been looking at you since the first day you came to work and just decided to open up, but did not know how. After I accidentally saw that you were on VK, I found your last name in the work schedule and wrote. I was just in shock. About his wife, he replied that he had not loved her for 2 years already, that test-antibiotic.com had no understanding and lived with her for the sake of the children.
After this meeting, we exchanged numbers, but communicated as before. It was already winter when he called for the first time and asked to come, explaining that he had a big fight with Tanya and not for the first time. It was about ten o'clock in the evening when Sergei arrived. We sat in his car and talked about the situation. Snow lay on the ground and went again, such paws. There was no wind, and I offered to play snowballs. We rolled in the snow, behaved like little children. We got into the car to warm up, I took off my down jacket, my jeans were wet. I didn't realize it was already 2 am. But even more, I didn’t notice how we started kissing ... Since the beginning of December, we started dating.
And in February, he directly tuned in to leave his family. I firmly decided that I would not take Sergei away from the family. Tanya found out about everything on the day when Sergei was about to leave her. We had a conversation about whether all this is true or not. I told the truth, but test-antibiotic.com did not say that Sergey did not want to live with her. After the conversation, I didn’t understand much, Sergey asked for forgiveness, said that he loved me, that he would do everything so that I was with him. I did not answer calls, messages, and he often waited for me near the house after work.
I went on vacation on February 6, he wrote a lot and every day, he was told that he had quit and a lot of dirt. For the first time I answered what he thinks about this, his words were: "I believe you and love you." We began to correspond again, Tanya found out again and issued her ultimatum: if Sergey leaves her, then they will be fired without paying my relatives. We were worried, Sergey spoke with one of the bosses, but he didn’t really answer anything. After a couple of days, we found out that all this was not true, but decided to wait. I wanted to quit, but the technologist did not let go, at the end of March she raised this issue again, and I was finally fired. A couple of days later, Sergei rented a room, we began to live together. At first he worked alone, so test-antibiotic.com I could not find my place, and a month later I was working in my specialty. Serezha has been worried about the boys all this time - the oldest is 16, the youngest is 13, but fortunately everything worked out. He communicates with the children, the eldest paid for all the courses of the computer academy, the first month of study. Junior - football training, uniforms, games.
Now we have been living together for half a year already, we moved to Lviv for work. He loves his children and his mother very much and helps her in every possible way.
I don’t need anything, it’s just that no one knows the truth except my relatives, so I wanted to speak out.
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