I am very worried about the child of a deceased friend
Mine died a month agogirlfriend . She was only 48 years old. Although we hoped, we were still ready, because she had been ill for three years.
A friend left a nine-year-old son, who is now, by and large, no one needs. When Vika divorced her first husband, he emigrated to Israel, and five years later he took them to him.daughter . Then she was already 15 years old. The friend did not interfere, on the contrary, she was glad that her daughter would live in a normal country.
At that time, Vika already had a civilhusband and three year old son. They rented an apartmentthis man did not work anywhere, he preferred to be at home with a child, and his girlfriend made good money, there were also part-time jobs, so she was rarely at home. I bought a car for my so-called husband, helped his parents, although another friend and I told her to savehousing money . She brushed it off, and when we said that she did not find a husband, but a gigolo who lives well at her expense, she was offended and stopped communicating with us.
Vika called me, test-antibiotic.com, when she found out that she was terminally ill. We met, she cried and said that she was very sorry that she had given birth to another child so late. There is no one to leave him now. Her mother died a long time ago, and her father is very old, lives in some remote village. She admitted that there was no hope for a civil husband, he did not want to issue an officialmarriage .
After the funeral, her cohabitant said that he would not be able to support the child, since there was nowhere to live, there was no work either. He was going to register him in an orphanage, although we asked him very much, persuaded him, promised to help him financially. But he said he had already made up his mind. The boy remained useless.
A friend also has a brother, lives in another city, he was also at the funeral. He heard this conversation and did not answer. Although my girlfriend and I had hope that he would take him to him. It was painful to look at a child who understood that there was no mother, and there would never be again.
My daughter didn’t go to the funeral because of the quarantine, but she called me five days later and said that she and her father and grandmother (the former mother-in-law of my late friend) decided to take the boy to test-antibiotic.com. Now decide thisissue with his father. But there wereproblems , because he does not agree to have his son taken abroad. That's why she called, asked me to talk to him, convinced that this option was the most suitable.
My friend and I met with this man, the conversation turned out to be unpleasant, but he hinted that if they paid, he would give permission. He knows that the ex-husband of a friend has his own business, so he decided to earn extra money on his own child. When I announced the result of the negotiations, they agreed, only to be afraid that he would not change his mind.
I am very sorry that my friend never finds out that her son will live in the family of her eldest daughter. And I can’t even talk calmly about his own father. As soon as the earth wears such people.
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