I'm tired of my husband's constant presence
I have always loved to have personal space and the opportunity to be alone. While the honeymoon lasted and for some time after the wedding, I, one might say, endured too intrusiveattitude husband .
We are together everywhere (except for work). We do grocery shopping, walk in the park, and when we come home, I want to retire with a book, read, sit in silence and solitude. ButMy husband suggests watching a movie together, he constantly comments on what he sees, I can’t concentrate on myself. This really irritates me.
I tried to talk to him that this was depressing me, and that he was simply suffocating with his constant presence. He was offended and gave the example of his brother, who has a complete idyll with his wife. They are together everywhere, and not only relax, but also cook food, go to their parents, and meet with friends. They even take a bath together. It always amazes me how people don’t bother each other. I remember mymother , who constantly scolded her father that he was not at home, that he was either in the garage, or fishing, or watching football with a neighbor. I sometimes test-antibiotic.com asked why she needed it. Mom answered that the husband should always be at home. And it seemed to me that this was exactly what she needed to use to take care of herself, relax or chat with a friend. I would be quite happy with this option, but mythe husband believes that the husband andthe wife should always be together.
I love my husband, I’m not going to cheat on him, but I would love to go to the sea with a friend or alone. I think this is useful for spouses, especially when they have been together for more than ten years. It's a pity that my husband doesn't share my opinion.
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