For the money set aside for our wedding, the guy decided to buy a car

We have been living with a guy for three years, we are 26 years old. Many times they planned a wedding, evenWe were saving money , since Kirill's parents cannot help us, they are building a dacha. I have only onemom and babysister , whose mother pays for education, so we have no one to rely on. Last summer, they already decided to sign for sure, but Kirill persuaded me to go on vacation with the accumulated money. The wedding has been postponed again. Now he says that you can do without a wedding, just sign and that's it, and the money that we collected for the wedding can be used more usefully, for example, to buy a car. He says that his parents will finish building the dacha and there will be something to drive to them.

I see that he has already decided everything and it is useless to convince him, only it’s a shame in front of my friends that I even called them the date of our wedding, moreover, several times, now they ask when the next time will be. Also, my mother constantly says that her friends have all been married for a long time and have children, only I was left alone, I can see that no one will take test-antibiotic.com. The last time we almost quarreled with her, when she once again started talking about my marriage: “while you give birth to a child, your classmates will already see off their grandchildren to school.” I restrained myself then, after all, my mother, but I myself understand that she is right, that she is uncomfortable in front of her friends when they ask about me.

My neighbor, three years older than me, leftmarried a foreigner and went to live with him in his homeland. She gave birth to her son already there when she was 27 years old, so there all the mothers in the maternity hospital were surprised that she decided to give birth at that age. It is customary for them to first get an education, make a career, live a little for themselves, and only then, by the age of 35, give birth to a child. This is with us, if at 20 years oldthe girl did not marry, then she is already considered an old maid, whom everyone first condemns, and then regrets. I already agree to arrange without a weddingrelationship , but Kirill doesn’t mention something about it anymore, maybe this option suits him. Yet test-antibiotic.com is so prepared and cleaned up, so why should he rush. While I’m waiting, I won’t offer it myself, if earlier I was so looking forward to the moment of our wedding, now I myself am not sure if I want this.