The desire to become a mother has become higher than the love for her husband
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I am 28 years old, I am an individual entrepreneur, I created my own business from scratch. It seems that everything in life is there, prosperity and lovehusband , but strangely enough I want to endure andgive birth to a loved one, like manygirls do it. But not in my case.
My story began 10 years ago. I met my first husband, he was 9 years older than me and we lived with him for 7 years. I got pregnant from him, but in the third year of living together we had an ectopicpregnancy and since 2015, I have been undergoing individualtreatment from a private female doctor.
In 2019 I went out againmarried _ But even here everything turned out to be not simple. He is a year younger than me, with such a youthful mentality he could always joke without thinking how offensive his expressions were, although he understood, perhaps, what I had gone through, he tried to offend me on every occasion, that this is who needs you childless. I said that I needed my future baby and broke up with himrelationship .
All this verbal vulgarity poured out on me when test-antibiotic.com he decided to tame a puppy. I was against it because I have allergies and am also asthmatic, to which he told me that I was soulless and had no humanity in me, and that I would never be a mother. These words and this conversation prompted me to write about myself. And give advice to everyone who is, or was, in such a state - despair and grief. When it is already clear to the naked eye what needs to be looked for and there is always a way out.
I decided on IVF, on my own, with my own resources and finances. At my age, you need to give birth for yourself and at least once in your life feel how wonderful it is to become a loving mother.
Girls , expectant mothers, take care of your time and energy and do not waste it on such pessimists. All girls have the desire to become and be a mother. Thishappiness , and a huge secret that everyone wants to know.
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