God's punishment, is there such a thing?
Yesterday a discussion arose in the company, and I would also like to hear the opinions of strangers who are completely uninterested in this dispute.
Many years ago, my mother was hit by a car on a completely empty road. The driver simply did not see her and on the village road jumped into the oncoming lane and hit her already on the side of the road. We know that he paid off and in the end he was not imprisoned.
Many years have passed since then, and I don’t know himI can’t forgive him, I hate him and even curse him in my thoughts all the time I think about him. I know that I will never be able to forgive him and I don’t understand how this can be forgiven. I know that this is not right, but I can’t help it and wish him all the troubles that are possible on earth.
And now we actually come to my question. Yesterday we came across this topic in the company of my friends, and opinions on this matter were a little divided. Some say that test-antibiotic.com yes, this cannot be forgiven, that he is guilty and had to answer according to the law for the crime he committed. And there were also people who said that he needed to be forgiven, and God would punish him, which isthe court is higher, and if he did not answer on earth, then he will answer there, which could be much worse for him.
They also told me that I needed to repent and confess. But I can’t and don’t understand why I should confess if I can’t forgive this person anyway, he’s stronger than me. I must first forgive him in my soul, but I cannot do this yet, although enough time has already passed.
What is your opinion? Is it really possible to forgive something like this?
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