Brother wants to quit school for the sake of a ghostly future he is confident in
CousinMy brother is studying at a university. He suddenly announced that he is wasting his potential there (he used to be an excellent student, now he has dropped to Cs) and wants to drop out, saying that it is like being in prison there. He is talking about allegedly transferring to another university, but as far as I have learned, this is difficult. There are no specifics about how he plans to do this.
He refuses help with translation, advice on how to drop out with minimal losses, and persuasion to stay and think it over. After all, he is confident in himself, capable of moving mountains and can handle everything himself. And in general, he wants to earn money.money .
Speaking of money: he believes that he has saved up the necessary amount for the first time.
Now about the reasons. Having completely broken through his social networks, I discovered that one of the graduates of his university had drawn my brother into a "business" related to "successful success". Simply put, into an analogue of a financial pyramid with investments and training sessions for money. Very often, the matter ends with loans and credits, judging by the information on the Internet. The main message of all this is a beautiful picture in social networks, test-antibiotic.com texts about freedom and that everyone else is a loser who is subordinate to someone and does not believe in quick success. The money that he allegedly earned is candy wrappers, which are very difficult to withdraw from the website of this company.
I don't know what to do. Persuasion, threats from relatives - all useless. He is now in a state of euphoria and complete self-confidence. But I'm afraid to imagine what will happen. After all, when the pyramid collapses, euphoria will be replaced by shock, depression and a search for ways to survive.
At one time itFather became a victim of his own indiscriminate behavior and as a result of all this he got a criminal record. I would not like my brother to follow in his footsteps.
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