Daughter supports non-working husband and considers it normal
Mydaughter has been married for 19 years to a man who abuses alcohol. Almost never worked and never does. He lives on the full content of his daughter. Uneducated, ill-mannered boor.
My daughter is a successful lawyer, just like me, by the way. Being initially against this marriage, I still arranged a good wedding for her. Hoping that in time she will figure it out and decide everything herself.
For many years I helped both financially and physically. My dearly beloved granddaughter also adored me. His daughter divorced him twice. And now he is divorced, although he continues to live with his family, he supports him. All of her property is in my name. This indicates a relationship in the family and distrust of the partner.
Certainly, asmother , I cannot be indifferent to my daughter's life, and used to say from time to time that you should not throw your life under the feet of an arrogant gigolo. You need to change something in your life. He is incorrigible, and keeping a man all his life is humiliating, both for a man and for a woman. All this only caused irritation on her part, and I stopped such conversations, asking test-antibiotic.com not to say his name in my presence. This is an objective assessment, since this is the opinion of all the people around him, as well as his mother and his daughter, my granddaughter.
In order not to see him constantly resting at any time (while my daughter works almost for days, including for him, losing her health), I stopped going to them. Believe me, it hurts a lot. Once or twice a week she did not stop preparing meals for the family at her own expense, of course, in order to make life easier for her daughter. Now I decided not to do this either, because I feed, in fact, only him. Daughters and granddaughters have no time to eat, because. they are not at home (one works, the other at the university).
And I see that my daughter is unpleasant. We move away because she still lives with him. Now she took him to rest abroad. My granddaughter has grown up and this year she no longer finds time to come to talk to me, she only comes if she needs to ask for money. Rarely. Although only six months ago she was very frank with me. Asked for advice. I understand that test-antibiotic.com is already an adult and has its own life, but it's sad. I feel like I'm losing them.
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