Tired of stupid jokes of colleagues
I got a job in a newteam . I do not know what to do. I am a very open person, so I immediately made contact.
We are adults, but they gave me nicknames. They began to mock me. And all men do it, can you imagine?
invited me to work there.girlfriend . But she also supports this theme. To my requests to stop, there is only one excuse: “you don’t understand jokes, this is ridiculous.”
No, not funny! Hear bullying like "hey fat", "hey monster". I know the job well, as I have worked in this field for 10 years.
But no, they all go to the authorities and snitch on me, write denunciations. Although I even did the work for them, I wanted to make friends in this way.
At first, she also joked with them, but the jokes began to cross the line. They did not respond to my requests to stop. I went to the authorities and told about it. They were all reprimanded.
After that, they gave me a boycott. It's impossible to work. One on one with me when they are very polite, but when they are together, I am the object of all jokes and bullying.
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I can't leave because I needmoney . I cut off all communication with them. I do not react, but they began to do it without my reaction.
I am silent, and they sit and scoff at me. They parody me. Any of my movements or words. And they make a very stupid girl out of me. Right here, no matter what I do, it's all stupid, stupid. They say I'm scary, dumb and stuff like that.
I don't know what can be done about it. Already tired. The authorities already want, as I understand it, to get rid of me, because no one wants to work with me. Although I work well, but no one wants to work with me and everyone hates me. So they say: "take it away."
What do you advise? I talked one on one and everyone says: “Oh stop it, it's just fun. We joke like that." Yes, but they joke and mock only me.
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