Do I need this kind of friendship?
Myhusband has an elderbrother Maxim. We communicate well with him. He can just take a break between lessons (heteacher ) come visit me for tea. We sit and just talk about this and that.
But Maxim is married. He has 3 children at home. And himmy wife started looking at me suspiciously. This is unpleasant for me, but at the same time I won’t tell Maxim not to come visit us!
His wife stays at home all the time. Doesn't take good care of himself. And from our conversations, I understand that he is not painfully drawn to home. He is one of those men who runs away from problems. It’s difficult at home, so he’s holed up with me.
I don't like the way he behaves with his wife. But when I tell him something, I see in him a reluctance to change anything.
And recently I had a dream that he kissed me. Even in my dream I got up and ran away. And now the thought came to me: isn’t he coming to us because test-antibiotic.com he likes me?
Maybe this is stupid. But I began to leave home more often so that he would not come. But heEvery day he calls and asks if I’m home or not. As soon as I'm home, it comes right away.
I don't need this nonsense. But he is very similar to my husband. What should I do? Just don't tell me to talk to him. I can not. What if I imagined all this for myself?
In fact, I’m still like a little boy to him.child . My husband's brother is 37 years old. Or maybe the fact is that I question the friendship between a man and a woman? Of course, there are exceptions, but these are rare. Lastthe man to whom I proved thatThere is friendship , he became my husband.
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