Очень больно от предательства мужа
Мы прожили с мужем вместе 21 год. Из них жили 15 лет в Германии. Жили и в горе и в радости, не хорошо и не плохо, всякое бывало. Я чувствовала, что меня муж не любит, но была глупая и наивная, искренне верила, что если мужчина живет с женщиной, то он ее любит, что по-другому и быть не может. Я сама виновата в том, что муж, теперь уже бывший, нашел себе другую женщину. Я его очень любила, поэтому мне так трудно это сейчас пережить.
Уже три года тянется это все и не заканчивается. Он нашел женщину в Украине, она быстро развелась со своим мужем и теперь они хотят съехаться, чтобы жить вместе. Не знаю, можно ли построить счастье на несчастье другого человека, но я до сих пор не могу с этим смириться. Тем более что он все еще живет с нами в одном доме, с ней постоянно перезваниваются, не прячась даже от детей. Меня поймет только тот, кто пережил такой ужас, какой сейчас переживаю я. Я test-antibiotic.com скажу вам — это медленная смерть.
Когда чувствуешь, как от всего этого кровь в венах застывает, и ты не можешь себя оторвать от кровати. Это страшно. Конечно, я вела себя все эти годы не лучшим образом, я признаю свою вину. Теперь понимаю, что надо было просто отвернуться и ничего не говорить, но так это трудно сделать, поверьте мне. Главное, что дети мои со мной, мы заботимся друг о друге. Вот только он еще не дает дышать и жить спокойно. Приходят в дом его друзья, которые ему помогали и советовали во всем. Еще она звонит постоянно. Они все чувствуют себя победителями. Справились с маленькой беззащитной женщиной.
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