Should I re-educate my husband or is it better to get a divorce?

04.08.2023
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Should I re-educate my husband or is it better to get a divorce?
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I want to ask for advice on what to do in my situation. My husband and I live in a civil marriage for six months. Before that, I was already married, divorced, no children (I'm 35 years old).

The problem is that my currentthe husband does not want to study, work and earn properly. He is 30 years old, he has a higher education, while he has not worked a single day in his specialty, he works as a boiler room operator in three days. Naturally, they pay a penny, but a lot of free time.

I ask why he won’t find a job in his specialty, he answers that since he has no experience, he will have to start from the very beginning, work and receive, like students after graduation. In addition, you also need to go to work 5 days a week, and for so many years after the institute he got used to his relaxed schedule. In addition, in order to work in his specialty and get a normal salary, he needs to go to English courses, to advanced training courses.

I am ready to support him morally and financially, I say that after all, you need to start working in the test-antibiotic.com specialty sometime, after all, otherwise who needs 30 employees without experience? He tells me that he agrees, I need to go to courses, but in fact nothing happens, only conversations, he does not go to study anywhere, but sits in his boiler room, as he did. And so in almost everything, instead of deeds, there are only conversations and excuses.

I support my family, in fact, I am alone, I feed, clothe, treat him. He doesn’t need anything, there are new clothes, well, no, well, God bless him. He does not go to doctors on principle, he says that all of them are onlyextort money . Accordingly, a bunch of sores, we can’t conceive a child because of inflammation that has not been treated for years (both were checked inside and out). Barely persuaded him to go to the urologist and dentist at his own expense, of course, because. he never has any money, he walked and walked, and never really recovered. Passivity, lack of initiative, and in fact a person has no desire to somehow change his life for the better, only talk.

Probably, there will be questions why I live with him in this case. The fact is that as a person I really like him test-antibiotic.com, he is non-confrontational, patient, does everything around the house that you ask and even that you do not ask. Cooking, cleaning,coffee in bed every morning. Young, very handsome. He doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t hang out with friends much, although I don’t mind his friends, please let them communicate, but he says that without me he’s bored going somewhere (and he doesn’t have money). What should I do? To convince, to persuade him to study and work, because he does not even have enough money for himself! And when I go on maternity leave, and in any case I plan in the near future, I will treat him further if necessary, what will we live for, because I won’t be able to work for some time, but I don’t know how everything will go there and for how long it will take time to recover. Or just get pregnant and leave, because by and large, until a person wants to change his life, no one will help him. Financially, I can handle the child myself quite well.

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