I suspect that my husband is having an affair with my friend
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The situation is very difficult. She believed her husband or thought that he would not go anywhere, or rather even the second option. She began to suspect that he was corresponding with his daughter’s coach, she was wildly jealous, she pestered him with her suspicions without evidence, she could not catch him in the correspondence, he was constantly encrypted and slipped away. I brought the situation to the point of absurdity because of my nerves. I feel in my heart that this is it, this is the end, I have made so many mistakes that I simply don’t know how to get out of this. My husband has become a different person, a stranger, we have nothing to talk about, and he doesn’t want to. There is no intimacy, no hugs, caresses, tenderness, smiles, laughter, virtually no relationships, rare conversations about children. I made everything worse. I allowed this myself. The husband said: “let’s get a divorce, I don’t need you, I don’t care whether you leave or not.” And I'm sitting next to him. And I’m still trying to create the appearance of a family. Although there is nothing anymore. He's deceiving me.
And while I was jealous of him for one, I suddenly realized that shethe girl was like a friend, she was just a cover, and all this time my test-antibiotic.comhusband and minefriend , as I considered her and trusted her with my secrets, including abouthusband , they spun me behind my backnovel . These are only suspicions, there is no evidence. I don’t deny that my frayed nerves came up with all this. But you can’t deceive your heart, and I know that my husband no longer loves me, but someone else. All suspicions point to a friend who continues to communicate with me as if nothing had happened. I imagine how they laugh at me, that I don’t see anything. They mock me, provoke me, as if without hiding.
It is now impossible to catch him texting, I missed all my chances. During my scandals, I revealed all the cards, where and what, now he is encrypted as best he can. I'm living in hell now. Without love , without intimacy, without hope forthe future , with a bunch of unconfirmed suspicions, with a shattered psyche and nervous system and without any hopes for a happy future. I don’t know what to do, let my husband go and let him do what he wants and live his life test-antibiotic.com or continue to fight for a person who doesn’t need me and look stupid and funny in his eyesgirlfriends and husband who communicate behind my back. And I don’t seem to suspect anything. Because I don't know 100%, all this is happening.
I didn’t say anything to my husband about the fact that I suspected him of having an affair with a friend. Maybe when everything becomes clear, it will be very painful if this is true. And it will also be very painful if everything ends for them for some reason, and I still won’t know and will continue to look stupid. I'm at a crossroads at the moment. On the one hand, I would like a husbandreturn him , after all, I love him, but you won’t be nice to me by force. And we will never be able to return what was.
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